One of the most common things I hear from couples before their wedding day is, "We're not photogenic." I get it—being in front of the camera can feel a little nerve-wracking, especially if you don’t think of yourself as someone who “takes good photos.” But here’s the truth: every couple is photogenic. You don’t need to be a model to have beautiful, meaningful wedding photos—you just need to be you.

Let’s break it down.

Most of the time, when people feel they’re “not photogenic,” it’s because:

-You feel awkward posing.

-You don’t know what to do with your hands.

-You’ve had bad experiences with photos in the past.

-You're overly critical of yourselves in pictures.

If any of these resonate with you, know that you’re not alone. But also know that your wedding day isn’t about stiff poses or forced smiles. It’s about real moments, real love, and real emotions—and those are always photogenic.

My Approach: Natural, Candid, and Guided When Needed

As a wedding photographer, my job is to help you feel comfortable, confident, and completely yourself in front of the camera. Here’s how I make that happen:

1. Focusing on Candid Moments

The best photos come when you’re not even thinking about the camera. The way your partner looks at you when you’re laughing, the happy tears during the vows, the way your hands naturally find each other—these are the moments that tell your story. My approach is documentary-style, meaning I capture these raw, unfiltered moments as they happen. You don't need to be in your heads!

2. Gentle Guidance Without Stiff Posing

I never expect my couples to know what to do in front of the camera—that’s my job! I offer simple direction when needed, helping you interact naturally instead of forcing you into uncomfortable poses. Whether it’s a little movement, an inside joke, or a moment of quiet connection, I guide you in a way that feels natural and authentic. 

3. Creating a Comfortable Experience

Feeling comfortable in front of the camera starts with trust. Before your wedding day, we’ll have conversations so you know what to expect. If you’re still nervous, this is why I include engagement sessions! They can be a great way to practice and see for yourself that you can have beautiful and relaxed photos.

4. Making Sure You Feel Confident

While my first tips focus on how I can help you, this one is all about what you can do to feel confident in front of the camera. Do you remember that feeling when you leave the salon with a fresh blowout or, for my grooms, a sharp new haircut? Or when you put on a brand-new outfit and instantly feel amazing? That’s exactly how we want you to feel on your wedding day! Whether you choose to do your own hair and makeup, work with a professional, or skip makeup altogether, the most important thing is that you feel comfortable and confident. Many vendors offer trials for this reason, and if you’re going the DIY route, doing a few test runs before the big day is a great idea. Your outfits? Same principle. Choose a dress that makes you feel radiant and allows you to move freely. Same goes for your shoes—comfort is key! Grooms, pick a suit that makes you feel like James Bond himself. The bottom line: When you feel your best, confidence will shine through—and that will reflect beautifully in your photos.

Your Love Story is Worth Capturing

At the end of the day, your wedding photos aren’t about perfect poses or looking a certain way. They’re about capturing the love you share, the joy you feel, and the moments that make your day uniquely yours. And trust me, that will always be photogenic.

So if you’re worried about not being “good” in front of the camera, let me take that worry off your shoulders. You don’t need to do anything but be yourselves—I’ll take care of the rest. And when you look back at your wedding photos, you’ll see what I see: two people madly in love, looking absolutely stunning, just as they are and surrounded by all your loved ones.

Ready to create some beautiful memories together? Let’s chat!

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